Published on August 19, 2001 By Doreen In WinCustomize Talk
Well Brad you know me by now I usually just speak my mind no matter how stupid or off topic or outragious it may seem to others but that is just me...
As long as I have been around the so called skinning community "I" have never been censored
(even though I probably deserved it a few times)

"my opinion" of you censoring that other thread tonight was that I felt it not necessary "he" did not really say anything worth being exiled or censored he simply stated an opinion and to actually go as far as deleting all the other comments of everyone elses along w/ it to make it take a form and shape it was not going to take if it had been left alone to go it's own path, seems weird to me, I don't feel comfortable even posting this cuz if you don't appreciate what even I have to say, you may just delete my thread???

Yes I know it is your site but must the members feel uneasy to express themselves or find their comments on your msg board deleted?


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on Aug 19, 2001
To the community, please do not force a hoverdesk section. I have a wife and two kids and do not wish to be laid off! I enjoy working on WinCustomize and wish to continue.

Ok, enough sarcasm. I'm going to go and get a fake passport, go over to some other country and kill someone else under someone else's name and make it public. But I don't want to ruin my good reputation so thats why I am going to use a false identity.

Alright, so I lied about the sarcasm. I can't believe that some of you would support a person who uses a false identity to bash other people. Get real, how is that right? I will take censorship over that view any day.

Tom Cruise, I dare you to come forth and reveal your true identity. (I bet he/she doesnt)

on Aug 19, 2001
I'm sorry Brad
I did not mean to make things harder on you and this site, that was not why I posted that.
(you said it was okay to start another thread in the thread that you censored if it bothered anyone so I just simply reacted before thinking as usual)

cuz it bothered me that I seen not only the person you aimed at censoring but also the other comments made by innocent members posting along in that thread, and then the thread was totally "rebirthed a different breed"
(however I was not in that thread at all and I don't even know why it bothered me)
but "it just came out"... again sorry

(I need to learn to censor my own self)

Doreen goes off to take a break for awhile
on Aug 19, 2001
Cut & Paste from another thread.......

If I was Brad Wardell, and anyone spoke to me the way some of you speak to him, I would pull the plug on this site in a breath! If I owned this site, it would look like the concept page that T-Man made. I think Brad shows great restraint keeping this site as it is.

Hegramet: I don't know who you are, and I don't really care, just don't come around here stinking up MY message board with your petty jealousies. Yes, your jealousy is so evident it's embarrasing. If you don't like it, just don't come here. If you are into desktop customization, this is still the best place to hang out.
Brad, I hope you DON'T pull the plug! some of us are grateful for the site you have provided. You must have the patience of a saint to put up with the whinging, whining idiots who attack you on a regular basis.
Now, grow up, you whiners, this is a website, not a government.
I have truly never heard such bullshit as complaining about a websites mission statement!!
I come to this message board for help when I need it, and to offer help where I can. I don't want to read this political crap that some of you spout. I'll say it again: IT'S A WEBSITE, FOR GOD'S SAKE!!!, just take some nice skins for your computer and shut the hell up.
Thank you.

Doreen: I am surprised to see you start a thread like this when you are an admin on another site.(Lots of Skins). If Chaz got the kind of grief that Brad gets here, I'm willing to bet you would pull the thread. So please don't jeapordise this site by stirring up unrest, especially as you don't call this site home. Remember how you felt when Skinz went down?, well that's how I will feel if Brad pulls this site off.
I'm saddened that I am probably going to make enemies of people I have respected in the past, but until you all come to your senses and remember that this is a WEBSITE, I will continue to berate you all for being pathetic and unrealistic.
on Aug 19, 2001
listen to grog. Has any actual user ever been banned from this site for speaking their minds in the entire history of this site? answer: no. i am so sick of the elitist holier than thou attitude of some people around here. i remember bakerstreet writing a long personal insult post at frogboy on this very forum and was he banned? no. was he censored? no. so give the rest of a us a break with the claims that this site is somehow censorship central.
on Aug 19, 2001
Don't they delete bad skins, wallpaper and other stuff all the time? How is this any different?
on Aug 19, 2001
I just love how a legitimate concern being voiced causes a war. Doreen voiced a concern. In a free-thinking society, that concern would be discussed, opinions voiced, people would agree or disagree...perhaps some constructive changes would happen... but that would be it.

Instead, what do we have here? Just because you voice a concern or point out a potential problem doesn't make you anti-Wincusto. In fact, doesn't it make you for it? I wouldn't criticize the site unless I wanted it to do well.
on Aug 19, 2001
Doreen posted. FB responded with an exhaustingly long explanation that seemed reasonable to me. Whats the reverse? if you don't agree with Doreen and you you're causing a war? What constructive changes should happen? Spoofs everywhere taking pot shots at each other? Its pretty silly that anyone would argue the posting rights of a spoofer.
on Aug 19, 2001
Why is it silly? Spoofing is fine as long as the anonymity isn't abused. And it isn't. . . there aren't mass flamewars between spoofers, the tomcruise fellow wasn't flaming, I read his post. . .his statement, though a bit inflamitory, was accurate and polite.
on Aug 19, 2001
His post was: 1) Totally off topic 2) It was inflammatory, and 3) It was incorrect.

Bottom line, if you're a fake user, you're walking on thin ice. If people think that fake users are just fine to use, then they're free to go to some other website.

When I started with BBSes, we coudln't evne post until we were validated. Validation required a phone call from the Sysop of the BBS. So hearing someone complain because we're not letting fake users hijack other people's posts to take pot shots at the site seems absurd to us old timers.

We're pretty happy with how the website is going. It's not going to go away and we're not going to make changes under duress. We are perfectly happy with the idea that people who think that this site is evil or wrong or whatever can go find other sites.

I am so fairly bothered as to how little some people are willing to put forth themselves. More people need to be like Chaz. Chaz likes skinning and he has managed to put up a pretty good skin website on his parent's cable modem. So if Chaz can do that, why can't you Hegramet? Anyone who wants to try to enforce their particular world view on us should just leave and start their own site.

We can argue forever about petty details on skin sites, but if you really want to help, start your own website.
on Aug 19, 2001
The worse of all is we don't even know if there are spoof users or not. For all I know Frank Leon could be an alter ego for Frogboy since they're always of the same opinion but Frank is always much more agressive (don't laugh but I've been wondering about that fact for a while now)... Just as Craeonics could be Doreen's rebel side... In this virtual world, we don't know who people really are...
on Aug 19, 2001
Actually, I'm Paxx's spoof.
on Aug 19, 2001
So anyone who voices an opinion here should just leave? Interesting.. what's with the bad moods. I mean, it's not exactly news that net geeks don't much like censorship.

And Frank Leon, you can agree or disagree as is your right of course. I was just pointing out that Doreen was hardly attacking anyone, yet was made to apologize... for doing nothing more than saying her view. TomCruise was censored for the same thing. I know there are other issues involved there... but the admins can say what they like.. it's censorship. Why else would they take this so personally if it were otherwise?

I don't hate wincusto or the admins of course. Frogboy stepped up to the plate at a time when the community needed him most.. and Stardock is doing a great thing here..

That being said, I still don't like censorship.
on Aug 19, 2001
Aliases are just too hard for me to remember. I inevitably forget who has which email and what password. Some of us are just too simpleminded.
on Aug 19, 2001
Doreen: I am surprised to see you start a thread like this when you are an admin on another site.(Lots of Skins).
by JourneyMan BoXXi - 8/19/2001 11:23:31 AM

Boxxi you "don't" know me very well then do you???
I am Doreen first "in everything in my life" Admin, is somewhere else down the line...
(not into roll playing Boxxi not even when I come out to skin)

That was what "I felt" however I should have "not posted" what I felt, cuz Brad catches enough grief around here w/o me making things harder...

I realized that, and "Thank you so much" for shoving it down my throat even further!

I do have a prob. learning to "not say" what I feel...

I have seen you Boxxi fly off the handle in many occasions doing the same thing I did.
(which was expressing how I felt)

Brad is not a stranger to me all that much, I just felt "comfortable at the moment" to talk to him on HIS site, as he also comes over to LOS as well...

again Brad I'm sorry about it...
(what I did bugged me worse then what happened in the first place)

on Aug 19, 2001
For the record, I think Doreen did a good thing in creating this post. People should feel free to ask questions. We just ask that the people asking the questions be who they say they are.

And Paxx, sure, everyone who agrees with me is actually just an alias of me. It's part of my super human abilities of typing long posts as me and as lots of other alias's as well. It couldn't possibly have to do with some people having a similar outlook as I do...
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